Wisdom

"You are never the best you will ever be." – Kristin Lamar

We live in a world obsessed with titles, benchmarks, and the illusion of finality—the idea that once we reach a certain level of success, wisdom, or mastery, we’ve arrived. But what if arrival is a myth? What if the real power isn’t in being “the best” but in the infinite unfolding of who we are becoming?

The Illusion of Arrival

As a personal advisor and intuitive guide, I see it all the time—people searching for the moment when they will feel complete, confident, and fully formed. They want the finish line, the point where they can say, I’ve made it. I am now the best version of myself.

But that moment never comes. Not because we remain broken or lacking—but because we are limitless. The idea of a final, fixed “best” is a human construct, not a divine truth.

The truth is we are always in motion. We are shifting, shedding, expanding. Even in our highest moments of achievement, there is something greater calling us forward....

“Change occurs when your current circumstances are no longer sustainable, thus where new beginnings are born.” – Kristin Lamar

Change is inevitable, but it often comes when our current circumstances are no longer sustainable. That’s where new beginnings are born. And yet, we resist it. We wait too long to create movement and momentum, clinging to routines that feel safe even as they no longer serve us. This journey of transformation and reflection is essential for those seeking personal growth and abundance.

I know this because I’ve lived it—years spent caught in the self-defeat of December and January, watching another year-end and a new one begin, all while knowing that nothing monumental had shifted for me. Each year, I’d go through the motions of hope: new goals, new intentions, new resolutions. And each year, the rinse-and-repeat cycle left me in roughly the same place. Worse, the noise of New Year propaganda—the "New Year, New You" slogans—only deepened the frustration.

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Turning Your Wounds into Wisdom: A Path to Personal Transformation - Kristin Lamar

For over a decade, I've had the privilege of coaching individuals through their most transformative journeys. As an intuitive and personal/professional advisor, I've witnessed my clients face some of life's greatest challenges—pain, heartbreak, failure, and suffering. But time and time again, I've seen them emerge from these struggles with greater strength, wisdom, and clarity, regardless of the depth of the trauma. 

One of the most transformative lessons I've taught over the years is the concept of "Turning Wounds into Wisdom." This isn't just a teaching I pass along to others—it's a philosophy I've personally embraced, one that has led to profound transformations in both my life and the lives of my clients. The process of reframing painful experiences as valuable lessons is what allows us to release the grip of the past and step into our fullest potential. In other words, when we face our trauma and ...

"Discover how to ground yourself through inner strength, set healthy boundaries, and carry your light wherever life leads. Embrace the journey to empowered living."

There's a certain kind of magic in finding a place that feels like home, a place where we feel deeply connected to the earth beneath our feet, the air around us, and the quiet pulse of life moving through everything. But what if that sense of home isn't tied to a single place but is instead a well of energy within us—a grounded strength that we carry no matter where we go?

This connection to our inner energy is a powerful force that, when nurtured, can sustain us through transitions, challenges, and the whirlwind of life's demands. It reminds us that stability doesn't have to be conditional on external surroundings. By tuning into this inner wellspring, we're able to carry a piece of our favorite places, our most empowering environments, in our hearts, allowing us to remain grounded wherever life leads us.

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