You Are Never the BEST You Will Ever Be

"You are never the best you will ever be." – Kristin Lamar

We live in a world obsessed with titles, benchmarks, and the illusion of finality—the idea that once we reach a certain level of success, wisdom, or mastery, we’ve arrived. But what if arrival is a myth? What if the real power isn’t in being “the best” but in the infinite unfolding of who we are becoming?

The Illusion of Arrival

As a personal advisor and intuitive guide, I see it all the time—people searching for the moment when they will feel complete, confident, and fully formed. They want the finish line, the point where they can say, I’ve made it. I am now the best version of myself.

But that moment never comes. Not because we remain broken or lacking—but because we are limitless. The idea of a final, fixed “best” is a human construct, not a divine truth.

The truth is we are always in motion. We are shifting, shedding, expanding. Even in our highest moments of achievement, there is something greater calling us forward.

The Terms & Conditions of Expansion

If we want to tap into our fullest potential, we must accept the terms and conditions of growth. And they aren’t comfortable. Growth demands that we stay curious, that we embrace uncertainty, that we remain open to what’s beyond our current understanding of ourselves.

It’s about waking up each day and asking:
✨ What am I being invited to step into today?
✨ Where am I resisting my next level?
✨ What part of me is ready to evolve, even if my mind says I’m not?

This is how breakthroughs happen. Not by clinging to what we think is our “best” but by surrendering to the ever-expanding, ever-deepening truth of who we are.

Curating the Next Version of You

To curate the next version of yourself, you don’t need to abandon who you are—you must integrate what you’re learning. Every challenge, every insight, every moment of discomfort is a piece of the puzzle.

• Your wounds are teachers. They reveal where love and power are waiting to be reclaimed.
• Your desires are divine whispers. They nudge you toward what’s next.
• Your doubts are thresholds. They dare you to step beyond what feels safe.

If you believe you’ve already become the best version of yourself, you stop listening to those whispers. You stop refining, exploring, and risking. You become static in a world designed for expansion.

The Power of Never Being Finished

When you release the need to be “the best,” you permit yourself to be more. More intuitive, more creative, more powerful. Not because you are not enough now, but because you are capable of infinite becoming.

So let me ask you:

Are you willing to let go of the illusion of arrival? Are you ready to embrace the version of you that’s waiting just beyond the edge of what you know?

Because you are never the best you will ever be.

You are becoming.

And that is where the magic is.

Final Thoughts & Call to Action

What’s one way you can step into your next level today?   Let’s keep evolving together. 🚀